A SPANISH WEDDING SOMEWHERE IN NORTH TENERIFE
I really have no idea in what Pueblo this wedding was in as we got ferried there by our friends in a nine seater van plus two others rammed in where the luggage would go which is sans seating. After an amusing day in our hotel retirement home and a few evening drinks with the family in the hotel where the reception was made the one we stayed in a luxurious affair. The couple picked October as the weather is supposedly very pleasant unlike his brothers which was on Fuerteventura in the middle of August in 36c. As luck would have it in Tenerife they had a bloody heatwave the week before with the added bonus of what is like a sand storm in the air where everything turns orange from the settling sand, luckily we missed this by a couple of days but still ended up in 32c at 7pm.
Now a Spanish wedding is something to behold especially for a heathen like me, but before that there’s the clothing issue to tackle. Not so bad for blokes as it’s the basic suit and tie job but for the women it’s evening ball gowns and that holds even if the ceremony is in the morning but this one was in the evening when it’s supposed to be cooler but it wasn’t. So after months of searching dresses and bloody shoes the blond had a number which was a bit heavier than the temperature was comfortable for but at least her top half ( not all of it obviously) off the shoulder was open to the elements unlike wearing a shirt and jacket. After months of shoe searching the ones she bought for the wedding didn’t even make it past the suitcase and are now amongst the vast collection in a kind of shoe shrinewhich one day will be like discovering Cleopatras secret burial site full of unused shoes.
At 6pm we were suited up and draining a quick glass of champagne in the bar awaiting a 6.30pm pick but as this is Canarian time, they were late. The nine seater Fiat thing was fine except we had a couple of extra family members lodged in the luggage area behind the three rows of seats so the noise level was cranked up a bit. This tank thing had sat nav but why it wasn’t being used as no one was actually aware of exactly where we were going was I suppose of no surprise seeing as we’ve known this lot for nearly 40 years, but directions were being given by more than one person from mobile phones and yes one or two differed. So the journey wasn’t exactly relaxing as it got a little hairy round a few bends as the clock ticked on but in the end we got there and very pretty it was, though also being there two days earlier it just might have been a good idea to have done a dry run.
The church sat at the top of a hill in the centre of the village dominating everything around it as good old Catholic Churches do and was very imposing. Inside was seriously decorated and i don’t think a lot of photos were allowed as it didn’t look like the usual sparse village church and with the way it was decorated inside gave that impression. Ushers don’t exist and it seemed to be a pretty free for all as to where to sit but on previous experience never take the front row. Not being of this faith (or any interest in any other) I take the second row of seats at least because then you have an automatic cue card in front of you and can see what your supposed to be doing. We knew this was going to be at least an hour long and boy did this one go on and on and on and on. Looking around every wall seemed to be dominated by some enormous carved effigy depicting death and suffering of Jesus Christ in various poses, boy this lot really are happy. Also the other confusing factor seemed to be anyone from the village could rock up and take a seat for the ceremony which I thought yeah that’s cool.
So it all began with three priests with one of them being the head honcho and the other two in a supporting role flicking bits and pieces around plus water and changing what seemed to be candlesticks or whatever while the top bloke chatted on and on a lot about the heart and stuff like that. I got a little confused when we got to the bit about El Senor and had also tuned out so like a prize dork I turned around looking for some bloke to come waddling up the aisle carrying some sort of cross depicting more pain and suffering or waving incense around but to no avail except for 300 odd Spaniards sat behind me wondering just what the hell this blokes looking for ?. Ok I’m an idiot, but for the last half hour we’d been up and down like bloody yo-yo’s with everyone but us mumbling away and furiously crossing themselves up down left and right that I wasn’t sure if we were all part of an old Jane Fonda workout video from the 80’s. So with the heart stuff all forgotten about this El Senor bloke seemed to take over the proceedings for the next 20 mins or so with more leg squats, mumblings and lots more crossing involved and a lot more Latin and plenty of en el nombre del padre del hijo etc etc and we’re just getting hotter and hotter.
It was all fun except for an extra half hour tacked onto proceedings when some of the guests and an awful lot of locals who turned up getting the freebie wafer and mouthful of wine at which point I could have killed for a small cold beer. Meanwhile a couple of old lady’s appeared with what look like bamboo sticks with large triangular cloth socks attached to them which turned out to be some sort of payment to get you through the pearly gates. I got nudged with a have you got any change ?. No I’ve only got 50€ notes on me and for that I don’t expect that to solely be the entrance fee to Valhalla I want a limo picking me up as well.
By now night had drawn in and outside was lit by lights and thankfully was cooler as we hung around waiting for the couple to emerge where you have a choice of throwing flower petals or in Spanish tradition rice. Now when this rice affair happens don’t stand at the front as believe it or not the rice can be bloody painful and for some insane reason the blond stood where she shouldn’t be and ended up with half a paddy field down her dress where being hot it didn’t exactly work its was through and so stuck to her body chaffing away for the next hour or two.
We all piled into the 9 seater van and shot back off to the reception minus the two cousins in the luggage area which was just as manic with 3 people giving conflicting directions which meant we ended up on the highway heading for the airport before exiting in the middle of nowhere and finding our way back, surely the Sat nav in the vehicle had our previous location? maybe maybe not but why be sensible and all this before a drink. The reception held in some hotel was very good as we all started with nibbles and wine around the pool deck which was great and we got to mingle with the dozens of cousins we don’t see every time we visit and some of them are now adults so at times I had no idea who the hell I was talking to but they were all cool with that. Inside the grooms mum Mariola had dressed all the tables with flower arrangements and all the room in general. Got to admit that the food was way beyond our expectations not only was it done very well for mass catering we couldn’t actually eat it all as the portions were enormous. The wedding cake was inedible to us as the amount of sugar used must have boosted Brazils sugar exports but then again neither of us have a sweet tooth. The evening was excellent and I think we got back to our retirement home at around 2am just a little bit worse for wear.
The following day the groom, his bride, brother, wife, parents, kids and a grandmother decided we were all having lunch at our pool deck restaurant which made eleven of us in total so that’s going to piss the guests off with the noise level. It all went fine and they bought along part of the wedding cake which hadn’t been touched which as I said was a complete sugar rush probably comparable to cocaine and we all had to have a bit. There was an English couple probably around our age with their son possibly 2O ish and we’d seen her the day before with a walking stick and about 40lb overweight which might be the reason she wasn’t the most mobile or lithe mover and had noticed the cake which was still mostly untouched. As we were about to leave she announced that if they were leaving that cake can they have it. We asked Jeffri what he was going to do with it as they wanted it, he said they can have it we don’t want anymore. Helen sauntered up to the table and said to them in English you may have it as it’s their wedding cake and they’ve had enough, so when the big bird finally picked up her jaw from the floor saying “oh you understood me”, of course we are English which left her totally confused but I bet she enjoyed the cake and just may now be using two walking sticks.